my name is rae, and my heart hurts too, but we can work through it together. i love you. <3

jadathejoint:

choose people who choose you.

❝Surround yourself with people who make you smile more.❞

onlinecounsellingcollege:

americanexpress:

7 Things to Stop Worrying About

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❝Dont ruin a good today by thinking about a bad yesterday. Let it go.❞

bittersuggestion:

Give yourself something to look forward to that isn’t a person

When you’re sad:

psych-facts:

1. Write letters to the people you love. Don’t seal them; don’t send them. Instead, stick them between the pages of library books.

2. Eat raspberries off your fingertips.

3. Venture outside and observe natural life. Watch a honey bee suck the nectar from lavender plants. Watch a snail slowly make its way towards the shade of a tree. Watch a hummingbird innocently fly above your head. Realize how insignificant you are.

4. Smile at strangers; say hello. It will improve their day and your own.

5. Write lists. They can be about anything.

6. Read several pages of the dictionary. Learn new words. Write down the ones you wish to remember.

7. Never feel compelled to apologize when you don’t feel sorry. It’s okay that you’re honest. It’s okay that you have a different opinion from someone else.

8. Read books and watch movies from your childhood. A healthy dose of nostalgia is okay. Immerse yourself in your past innocence.

9. Walk to a park and get on a swing. Go as high as you can; feel limitless. The world is yours.

10. Eat if you’re hungry. Food is not the enemy. You are a human and need food to survive. You deserve to eat. Put those raspberries on your fingers and sprinkle sugar on your tongue. Taste the summer breeze and sweet aroma of jasmine flowers.

11. Don’t marinate in your sadness. You are not a steak. You are a person; you’re irreplaceable. Open yourself up to contentment. Bathe in the rivers of Glee. Go for hikes with Satisfaction. Sleep in a warm cocoon of blankets with Bliss. Let endless happiness overcome your hopeless sadness. You deserve to be happy. If life is a game and you are the referee, be biased for once and let happiness win.

-When You’re Sad by thewastedgeneration

❝Don’t think too much - you’ll create a problem that wasn’t there in the first place.❞
Unknown (via bled)

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❝Don’t say maybe if you want to say no.❞
the best advice I’ve ever read. (via suspend)

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❝Time heals all wounds. And if it doesn’t, you name them something other than wounds and agree to let them stay.❞
Emma Forrest, Your Voice in My Head (via wnq-anonymous)

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